“Nā tō rourou, nā taku rourou ka ora ai te iwi." (With your basket and my basket the people will thrive.) – Māori whakataukī (proverb)
“We are all visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing through.
Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow, to love, and then we return home.”
– Australian Aboriginal Proverb
reflections大家好, kia ora koutou, greetings everyone, We’re near equinox. As the northern hemisphere tilts toward autumn, the days here in Ōtautahi Christchurch stretch longer. After months of grey, damp, and long evenings, I feel myself slowly emerging - still introverted, craving quiet, yet noticing (and rejoicing in) more light and energy. Winter has been a season of looking inward, catching old patterns, and gently - though not always - letting go of what no longer serves. Our whare (home, pronounced faa·ree) has been an anchor. Jen and I are cultivating it steadily - hosting friends, filming conversations, making meals, deepening our love, and dreaming of our first edible garden as spring scratches our nostrils with pollen. Daily reflections and small rituals make us and the whare feel alive, more than walls and warmth. Most importantly, Jen’s health and vitality have returned, which fills me with joy every moment, every day. This personal rooting has had me thinking about a broader, collective emergence. The way we’ve cultivated our home as anchor and tended to our inner lives mirrors what I’ve been reading on social change. We’ve moved past the initial disruption and are now in a pivotal time for coalescence - when disparate movements and individual efforts consciously connect, amplify, and align. Not through top-down control, but by realizing our individual “gardens” - local food systems, community spaces, healing, storytelling - are all part of a larger ecosystem. The time is ripe to move from scattered islands of coherence to a unified current, not just for survival, but liberation. It feels fitting I’ve been widening my circles locally: collaborating with inspiring humans and applying for accredited employment here in Aotearoa NZ - part of committing to this whenua (land) and planting myself firmly. I miss the fulfillment of my years with Conscious Impact in Nepal: a team working toward a kaupapa (purpose, principles) greater than ourselves. It’s my intention to find this again with people who value me showing up fully and doing honest good here in Te Waipounamu (South Island), while trusting the process, patiently, persistently... The freelance flow feels steadier as I heal my relationship with money - learning not to chase but to attract aligned projects and collaborators while practicing to say no. Alongside men’s group mahi (work) - listening deeply, sharing openly, facilitating - I’ve poured energy into Jen’s passion project, The Human CV, rebuilt my website-portfolio, immersed further into te ao Māori, and leaned more into self-care (saunas are fabulous). It’s a full plate that is satisfying with worthy devotions that have kept the winter fire lit. What has been keeping your fire burning? This edition carries that spirit of emerging from winter with buds forming, rooted in gratitude, while trusting that with patience and persistence, the next chapter keeps unfolding in flow. Thank you for being here with me. Below are snippets from video + photoshoots Jen and I captured for my personal statement video (soon to be released) and to represent the 2025 me to potential employers and the world - absolutely thrilled with the results! 🥳 good newsFact: Nearly all of us get inundated daily with sensationalised headlines of what humanity seems to be doing wrong (only).
original workWe featured episode 6 of Wilderness Within (WW) in the previous newsletter, and in this one, I am proud to present WW episode 7 with my sister from another mother, Alyson Noele Sagala! "Living with openness isn’t easy, but it’s the only way I feel truly connected."
In this intimate, firelit conversation recorded in the oak woodlands of Mendocino, California, I sit down with someone who has long felt like a little sister to me - Alyson. We’ve shared many chapters over the years, from our time living and working in Nepal to weaving our own creative paths through life. What we spoke about in 2023 still holds weight today, perhaps even more so in this ever-accelerating world.
Together, we unpack themes of identity, ego, creativity, and care. Alyson reflects on growing up Filipino-American in San Jose, California, finding healing through gardening and natural dyeing, and wrestling with the writer’s journey - the guilt, the fixation, the fear. We talk candidly about the shadow side of service, and the ever-present tug between doing what we love and doing what we think will make us lovable.
This episode is a heartfelt tribute to the cycles we move through - in art, in life, in healing. It's a timestamp of where we were, and a torchlight for the path still unfolding.
Tune in on RSS and all major listening platforms, such as YouTube as previewed above. Note: I will soon withdraw WW from Spotify and have boycotted them due to this recent realisation. In other light, I've been going all-in on interviewing, storytelling, and video production alongside my love, Jen, on her passion project, The Human CV. She has created a new YouTube channel, and we've finished filming season 1 with 12 unique guests (1 of them being yours truly 🙃). By the time you read this, we'll have started filming with radical new guests for season 2! In essence, The Human CV is all about: Soft skills. Shared stories. Simple truths. Welcome to The Human CV. This isn’t about titles, achievements, or job descriptions. It’s about people. Real conversations. I wish to highlight this conversation-interview between Jen and a dear friend + rockstar momma, Erica Austin: Please show aroha (love) to Jen and I by checking out the channel, subbing, and watching some of these deep-dive conversations that took place in our production studio that is... the beautiful living room! 😊 I'd be delighted to hear your feedback, especially if something really resonates in what Erica (and other guests) shared. 🎤 recommendations📽️ Videos:For folks in Aotearoa NZ and Australia (or those who use VPNs 😉), these 2 series: Hua Parakore and Nomad.
📖 Books:🎧 Podcast (besides mine 😉):
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gratitude & closeFor those of you new here - 歡迎! Nau mai, kia ora! Welcome, and thank you. For this edition, gratitude is due for Jen, my muse, cheerleader, and inspiration everyday. Thankful for Alyson & John in opening up their home for me to visit and record a fireside conversation 2+ years ago under the stars that's turned into our episode on Wilderness Within (WW). Grateful for Erica & Tania from Hapori and Seeds for Change for an exciting opportunity to collaborate and learn from one another. I give thanks to friends and supporters around the world who drop me DMs, comments, reshare my podcast and other creations, and those who hire or refer me and my services to others. Their presence, engagement, and support warm my heart: Loved reading through as always 💛
Warmly from this part of the world to you
Happy for your full metamorphosis into all that’s blossoming now, hugs
- Kristine S. Love it. The young man is growing up. Once you get an air fryer and a kurig it’s time to re-evaluate haha Well done son. Hope to visit you out there in the future - Kiel J. I am so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️ It is such a wonderful feeling to arrive at home.
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- Birgit P. Hell ya dude, writing from Vancouver island just was at an ecovillage for 2 weeks and ran into Dana and Laura from the Sunshine Coast… seems you’re well 💗 - Alex C. congratulations on your new partnership with Jen, great to see you happy. I enjoyed reading your newsletter
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- Jaime H. Congratulations on rooting down and claiming your home!!! Love that you’re pursuing podcasting too, amazing! I’ll let you know if I’m in NZ one day and until then, keep creating great work :) - Kimberly L. Love you dearly son. Wishing you and Jen good health and happiness ever after. - My momma bear! 💜 This newsletter publication is a labour of love and devotion. I create this because of my belief in radical self-expression and dedication to be a spreader of GOOD in our world. It has served as my sacred time to create and (re)connect with friends and connections near and far. Read previous editions here, and I invite you to share this with others. This creation is possible due to patrons who pitch in regularly on patreon, which allows my creations to be ad-free, a rarity in this age. Every month, I give ~8-15% of those earnings to charities, changemakers, and creators that in my opinion contribute to a more beautiful world we believe is possible. For this edition, I am joyed and proud to present our latest beneficary, The Emerald Podcast with Joshua Michael Schrei, and a needed hat tip to Paul Jones from Arthur Travel Health for renewing his annual patronage on patreon to keep supporting this newseltter and WW. Paul and I met in the jungles of Panama nearly 16 years ago now while attending a workshop on sustainable development. Wrapping up with an important ask - perhaps the biggest ask I've needed in years - I am currently in search of accredited employment in the spaces of content creation, community weaving, systems change to pave the way for residency in Aotearoa New Zealand. I am committed. If you are able to help or know someone who may be able to, I'd be so delighted a connect! 🙏🏽 Mauri ora - to well-being and the living essence in us all, Reader. -Kai J. |
🌏📷 Community-supported, purpose-driven, story and human experience-loving content creator for good. ✍🏽🎤 I share thought-provoking reflections, global good news, original content, and handpicked gems that highlight changemakers & visionaries. 📍🗺️ Te Waipounamu South Island, Aotearoa New Zealand
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